EP22 你以為是在幫他，其實是在控制他？伴侶共事最容易踩的界線｜我可能錯了I May Be Wrong Podcast

這一集，我們聊的不只是「要不要和伴侶一起工作」。
我們更想問的是：

當愛情、工作、責任與期待全部疊在一起時，
你還能不能真正看見眼前這個人，而不是只看見你希望他成為的樣子？

好的關係，不一定是替彼此解決所有問題。
有時候，真正的支持，是相信。
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如果你第一次來到這個頻道，我是 Lisa，IMBW 的創辦人。

IMBW，來自一句話：
I May Be Wrong.
我可能錯了。

我們相信，很多痛苦並不是因為我們不夠努力，而是因為我們太快相信了腦中出現的答案。

當心是混亂的，我們看見的問題也可能已經被恐懼、慣性與過去的經驗扭曲。

IMBW 想做的，不是再提供一套讓你依賴的方法，也不是告訴你某個工具能夠解決人生所有問題。

我們透過心理、哲學、關係、領導、呼吸、靜坐、運動、飲食與睡眠，陪你慢下來，重新看見自己的狀態，鬆開舊有的思維，做出更清晰的選擇。

不是為了成為一個永遠平靜的人。

而是當混亂再次發生時，你依然知道該怎麼回到自己。

Think deeper. Decide clearer.

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SPEAKER_03 1:38

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SPEAKER_01 2:18

Uhang so nin shan jang ho lao but how lao buttons.

SPEAKER_03 2:24

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SPEAKER_01 3:54

The you ain't sing way or jar and jo foo taman tagai nin ching the so mil chicong too. Hamaganit ta ho. Just a co tong to chance a milk can go fool jad. You hammer truly now bada type or my tai chong, so human jag eagerly by ja eats and now can change your taho, so truly make this cow tass and hamajo tong chico just a tum jai chi sang. So hajo rang or major to like jally gongsu siang. Now then shall tao li gong to the ching sho si and to tai huli. Now ni pizo pong out sang the wound the shangfagan le sanbu yang. Keru and says that tong eagle ling ugans how yin t song just uh send the hue meal ba fun the uh gong so gong so on a whole sharp and sharp. Si shang ni ta alex monzi lilac monzi, tamanzi uhima. Fuji do how to do. Time gong ton to changban exhibit that can take or just some ham colours, just how can tam time and that's opposite and quite so another shell so su the way can lay out the the touch it can yin.

SPEAKER_03 5:59

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SPEAKER_01 6:32

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SPEAKER_03 7:09

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SPEAKER_01 9:23

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SPEAKER_03 10:45

So you shan't so na organize gently yaw jiao and some chin ja the pofen what the sang the don't see fang ha in cheese. Oh sunshine eating out the young ticket ungwa the quin yin taike um poloon, sang suns you can sit out, chi wins woman took a sit dial shake a sida. Don't I see your issue then diet the in shan she woman or changer, shan't should choose also teacher is a major penoso I would not dai chipani. Uh book and bone. Pulay.

SPEAKER_02 11:37

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 11:40

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SPEAKER_01 11:53

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SPEAKER_03 13:08

Well you make gunshi.

SPEAKER_01 13:31

Rugo hui the huan now shan the truth yalang ho hui. Has it just a guan how now toso kawa shan't. Anyway, Rugo send the sio infant or to hold. So it's on y'all that's a negative yuan. See ni jo ni send the shang told the nation city, negative yum fans and the choice is a me, just a mail you say woman the mail ho I mil ho shima.

SPEAKER_03 14:06

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SPEAKER_01 16:22

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SPEAKER_03 19:01

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SPEAKER_01 19:05

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SPEAKER_03 21:56

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SPEAKER_01 22:00

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SPEAKER_03 23:21

Sidal tayo e tang zuni so what's in the puts dog guys the ne cur ni the cho and t a chatu hai chang si go and hui go tea so her do shan't the tea fang jugan or when that so ban horseso curho do sha ni means now taway fast and her one tea along how tri chin di tong yo sha chia hai can just ne go yogan yogan so can hassle.

SPEAKER_01 24:01

Okay opposite bodo had the can whole tri can so the tea ho uh what is e sis her one to hoy k shang fa just a wooden algum panu to ho putong ling u hen chang the rin isu. Just a cany and just all need changes ling taudi how does it hurry and the pan usually book ling to lig and chang the run. Now that tongs put in tongs young wang so egg di rookus the shang pong hu me panfa. To say how fangsang send the si ni si pso ni send her li tong li hen ho raha case gans hen chan ni so the neg a panu e n p so has a kwan di hen chang who the si ta uh si hen chang ten chukay gun hu her so the zhang tai now haio e diensi in way the guan di and si wo tho tian the kai the so si o fashion sa wo boo so ding yu hen chair in the peepinkan k so the bando so pal moo now pal mall su in some palma just ta shen si mo than some meo go diang now she tai ya koti so tang sha jo kan ho the jang tin hwa, kanger and jang tin ho. Now ha k peaches pij bott or shin the now tang si taho go down so ni surgent pangpin. Now chao chip and this and some now ha tang cha chees is pij din chi taju go now so had m can doubt just changu some min the gay. Now jo fashion eh or just a sweet won't take and chu won't you blend how so how is mut a chinchu down as what putsu so quite quite the tin ta no it's I what's she mean boy so peeping just it was hoanka do shan't change your gong so either piece uh need a change only her lans. Now you'll see too quite yachi.

SPEAKER_03 26:28

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